Disclaimer: Admittly this is probably a desperate plea for help, because I’m a really a sad man-child who can barely tie his own 3 shoes. Hurt & vulnerable would be the operatives at hand. So try not to laugh to hard MASSIVE.
I dated this girl once and we had quite a few friends we shared. Like any good relationship, it’s all for one & one for all. Or maybe that’s just way I deliriously fantasize things?
Anywho…
We broke up, and I proceeded to violently cut out every part of my heart that bore any resemblance of/to her. So unfriending our mutual friends was a no brainer, then.
Now, however, I’m back on familiar stomping ground, and many of these old aquantances want to buddy up again. I mean, I’ve got nothing against any of them, and don’t mind saying hi, or hanging out, but something about the notion of having to manually, physically, legitimately re-add these guys [on say Facebook] makes me a tad sqiemish. And I can’t really figure out why.
I’m curious, has any one [who reads the blog; I know it's happened before] else ever run into this type of dilemma? Cause the easy solution always seems to put as much distance between you & the other person leaving things, but coming back, is that the only medicine effective?
